When Care Recipients Get Angry
When a care recipient's anger lands on the person they trust most, it's hard not to absorb it—even knowing that blame is often grief looking for somewhere to go.
We explored the ripple effect of care recipients expressing anger about their limitations. As one member put it, “He must trust me, which is why everything is my fault.” This blaming often stems from frustration and grief on their part—but it still impacts the caregiver. Anger can be a mask for fear, loss, or helplessness, and when it’s directed at us, it’s difficult not to take it personally. This topic is far from closed and may be worth revisiting together.