Family Dynamics
It's common for families to disagree on what's best for the person being cared for—and resentment can build when the weight of caregiving isn't shared equally.
It’s common for families (broadly defined—relatives, close friends, etc.) to disagree on what’s best for the person being cared for.
46% of family caregivers in the U.S. who said their relationships with their siblings had deteriorated blame unwillingness on the part of siblings to help care for their parents. Such conflict is not limited to siblings. It is found equally in children questioning care by one parent for another, or amongst in-laws and extended family.
- Caring for Aging Parents — A Sibling’s Survival Guide — Daughterhood
- Talking with Siblings About Your Aging Parent — Hebrew Senior Life
- Sibling Rivalry: Why Can’t We Agree On Our Elderly Parents’ Care Needs? — The Classic at Hillcrest Gardens
- Tips for Siblings Caring for Aging Parents — HomeInstead
Resentment
66% of caregivers reported having experienced moderate to high levels of anger in caregiving situations. Caregivers are particularly susceptible, with 80 percent reporting strain on their relationships. Estimates of the divorce rate for couples in which one spouse has a serious chronic illness are as high as 75 percent.
- Managing Resentment: Challenges of Spousal Caregiving — CaringBridge
- How to Let Go of Caregiving Anger and Resentment — Pamela D. Wilson
- Caregiving and Relationships: It’s Complicated — US News